Grey's anatomy quotes

"How do you know when how much is too much?
Too much too soon.
Too much information.
Too much fun.
Too much love.
Too much to ask...
And when is it all just too much to bear?"

- Dr. Meredith ( Grey's Anatomy ) -

Getta Life!

I was busy making a magic through ma fingers when they're talkin' about shit and acting like a b*tch. Do i look like i care? Hell no! I just give my attention for something in ma priority list. And they're not in it. Boo-yeah!

Drugs Or Sunshine?

So tell me, if you're drug, may i find you at the drugs store?
If you're a drug, i may need a rehab like Lindsay Lohan.
If you're a drug, i must be so addicted to you.
But you're not a drug, i need you to make me become healthier like Jacob said to Bella Swan, You are my sunshine. Yes sunshine is healthier than drugs.

So, would you be my sunshine?

- Felsdar -

500 Days Of Summer

"Just because she likes the same bizzaro crap you do doesn't mean she's your soul mate"
( Rachel Hansen - 500 Days Of Summer Movie )

God Always Answer Prayers

God answers our prayers, and He is only a heart beat away.

“God Always Answer Prayer”

( Taken from Rumah Rosario )

God's responds to prayers is different from time to time

When God says NO

No - When the idea is not for the best

No- When the idea is wrong

No- When your prayers create problems for others

When the time is not right, God says SLOW

What a catastrophe it would be if God answered every prayer at a snap of your fingers.

Do you know what would happen?

God would become become your servant, not your master.

God's delay is not God's Denial

God's timing is perfect

Patience is what we need in prayers

When you are not right, God says GROW

A selfish person must grow in unselfishness

A cautious person must grow in courage

A timid person must grow in confidence

A dominating person must grow in sensitivity

A critical person must grow in tolerance

A pleasure seeker must grow in compassion for those who suffer

And when the time is right, God says GO

This is when miracles happen

A hopeless alcoholic sets free

A doubter becomes a child in His belief

A broken heart is healed by His power

Diseases responds to treatment, and healing begins.

The door to your dreams suddenly swinged open.

There stands God saying GO MY CHILD

Your Best Friend Ever!

Not all of our friends can be a best friend for us.

Best friend means the best person from all of our friends.

Honestly i'm a pixy person, i'm not share all my stories to all my friends.
I just pick one person.
The best from them all who i can be real and be comfortable with.

Best friend means a person who can respect us, understand us and can be a good advicer for us better than the other friends.

Best friend also a person that we can trust to share our stories.

Not the materialistic one.

Not the envy one.

Not the cruel one.

Dear blogger readers, not all of our friends are good.
But it doesn't mean that all of our friends are bad.


Pick one, trust one.
That's your best friend.


- Felsdar-

My Peace Bracelet

Here's my favorite bracelet. Peace bracelet.

You know what, i'm addicted too much to "Peace Sign" ( I blame you John Lennon! ) and when i went to a mall, i found this at Le Jardin, an accessories boutique at Citra Land, Semarang.

Honestly,
i was look for a red or shocking pink peace bracelet,
but it was sold out ( Ugh! Unlucky me! ).
So i took this green peace bracelet.

Anoyone who sells peace bracelet or knows where's the place to buy?
Please mention me at my Twitter http://twitter.com/#!/felsdar

Give peace a chance !!!


-Felsdar-

Dear Haters, Read This!

Last Love Stays Forever

I don't even care too much with a tagline which says that "First Love is everything"

First love is just a temporary...

Just like a temporary tattoo that we've made at the beach in Bali or another place in this world, it can be erased by the water and by the time.

Last love is deeper.

Last love means everything. It stays forever in a person who you called with soulmate.

That's why i don't even care too much with first love
'cause last love is the most important.

-Felsdar-

People who send you disturbing text messages

are not worth to get your attention.

Seriously.


-Felsdar-

Confessions Of A ( Smart ) Shopaholic

Well. Well. Well.
Here you can see Isla Fisher as Miss. Shopaholic at Confessions of a shopaholic movie poster above.

Tell me, who hates to go shopping?
No one?

Everybody love shopping. Esp the ladies.
Well, there are so many fashion taglines as the reasons of why we love to put our step into a shopping mall.

"Passion is fashion"

"Shop till you drop"

"Good shoes bring you to the good place"

"Your style is your signature"

"Good clothes pump your confident"

What else?

When you get your salary, you may think about what's the next branded bag collection in your hand or maybe you think about a new watch or new gadget or a new stiletto to steal an attention at the party, but have you ever think first to save or invest your salary?

Ladies, we're not only live for today.

We can spend all of our money for shopping but when we have no money for future, what does it mean?

This post doesn't mean to prohibit us for not to do this lovely activity,
but being a smart shopper is wiser.

Simply words, before you go shopping, separate between your needs and your wants.
Happy (smart) shopping then.


-felsdar-

Good Listener

God creates one mouth and two ears.
It means we should listen twice and do not talk too much.
Be a good listener!


-felsdar-

Tons Of Hugs : Deep And Meaningful

After the wedding ceremony, they are not two people anymore. But one.
They share all the happy or sad times, joy and pain in a hug.

This little cute girl hugs her Teddy Bear.
She tries to ignore her fear.
Yes. A hug can give us a power to face what we afraid the most in this world.
No fear anymore.

Distance is the worst bitch for lovers who have a Long Distance Relationship (LDR).
When they meet each other,
hug is the deepest language to say "i love you" or "i miss you so bad"

Or a hug can say a good bye.
This is the worst part of lovers
when they start to think that their relationship isn't working.
This hug means "..... Please don't go..."

Intimate hug. Full of passion.

A young dad hugs his little baby.
We can see clearly, this hugs means affection, love and protection.

Let's say that they are a couple of newlyweds who have just bought a new house.
This hug means blessing and joy.

This picture is about the relationship between a grandmom and a grand-daughter.
See that little girl, she feels so comfort to be around her grandmom.
That's hug. It makes them closer.

Ah. This is my favorite picture.
What we need to have a long lasting relationship (till old) is just
have a long lasting love.

Just like them.



-felsdar-

How I Love Your Mom

I love your mom because
she gave a birth to you in this world
so i could be thankful that there's you here.

Pretty Wings

"...Away from me to see clearly the way the love can be when you are not with me.."
It just a piece of lyric from Maxwell with his "Pretty Wings"

Well. I'm not gonna talk about Maxwell (even i really love his song). I'm gonna talk about the pretty wings.

As we've known, dove can fly to the sky with it's pretty wings.

But how come if the wings were broken.
Does dove still fly?

Yes. But it can't fly perfectly. It needs a recovery to fly again.
The pretty wings won't pretty anymore if the bones was broken.
So dove needs to take a time to rest then it can fly again. Higher. With the prettier wings.

Human is the same as dove.
We have our own pretty wings. Why do we have our pretty wings?
People say that it will be useful to get your love. Yes I understand that we should fight for what we believe. Love is the example. So we fly with our wings to the place above the sky called love.

But...... When the wings are broken, we're just like that dove.

We can't fly only with one wings.

So, we need a recovery. And those pretty wings can fly again even to the different sky, different love, different hope.

Just fly.

Fly with your pretty wings.
Prettier wings, stronger wings and better destination.


-felsdar-

How To Kill A Memory?

How to kill a memory?

Whatta stupid question that I've ever asked!
Memory is like pandora box.
For those who ask about what is pandora box,well,I'll try to explain it in simply words.
Pandora box is a box which full of surprise. If you ever read about fairy tale in your childhood, pandora is a box who full of happiness and also sadness. When you open it,you don't know about which one will be come out from the box.

And yes, memory is like a pandora box.
It's so happy to ride our time machine called memory to meet someone or something in the past.
But it's so sad to know that this someone or something is only live in the past. Not in today or future.

Does it hurt?
Yes sometime. Should we kill this memory? No.

No matter how hard we try to kill this memory, this memory will stay in our mind.

Memory only lost when we cut the part of our brain who works to keep this memory.

Memory, it can't be killed.
But it can be controlled by us.

It's okay to think flashback,but just sometime,let us control this memory.

And in the end, every person / something in the past isn't truly dead. They still live, but only in the smallest room of our heart.


-felsdar-

Greatest Love Of All

"GREATEST LOVE OF ALL"
( By : Whitney Houston )


http://www.4shared.com/audio/Ptw6tr7t/Whitney_Housten_-_The_Greatest.htm

I believe the children are our are future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be
Everybody searching for a hero
People need someone to look up to
I never found anyone who fulfill my needs
A lonely place to be
So I learned to depend on me

Chorus:

I decided long ago, never to walk in anyone's shadows
If I fail, if I succeed
At least I'll live as I believe
No matter what they take from me
They can't take away my dignity

Because the greatest love of all
Is happening to me
I found the greatest love of all
Inside of me
The greatest love of all
Is easy to achieve
Learning to love yourself
It is the greatest love of all

I believe the children are our future
Teach them well and let them lead the way
Show them all the beauty they possess inside
Give them a sense of pride to make it easier
Let the children's laughter remind us how we used to be

Chorus

And if by chance, that special place
That you've been dreaming of
Leads you to a lonely place

Find your strength in love

How To Be More Romantic?

Me : Why don't you be romantic everytime?

Him : What? Give you flowers? Say some sweet words? Honey, I've been preparing for something bigger than those things. I've been preparing for the real things, more than just those only words and flowers. I've been preparing a new world for us, for our little next family. Love isn't only about words and flowers, it's more than those. Your task is just be patient. *smiling*

Me : *speechless* *hug him*


-felsdar-

Would You?

If someday i said "I'm tired",
Would you be the first to hug me
and support me to stand again?


-Felsdar-

Your Facebook = Your Diary?

Have you ever read your friend's status on Facebook which show that he / she was mad of something? Or have you ever made a status on your Facebook which blame someone easily?

Well, today we know that some social networks esp. Facebook has been changed the function easily from social media into DIARY.

You can make or you can read other's life from their status.

Most of them put their Facebook as their diary. They write all the things there, start from happy stories till the poor stories of them.

I've found some status on Facebook which is show the owner's anger.
The owner of this Facebook wrote some rude words and blame another people easily on her / his facebook. You know what, here are my thoughts in my mind when the first time I saw those rude status on facebook :

First, POOR YOU!
Remember, saying some rude words (esp.on facebook) doesn't make you cool enough. Other people who saw that status may say (in their heart) "Oh geez, this person is too labile too handle a problem" or "Geez,did this person ever learn about ethics in a primary school?"
So, more status on your Facebook to show your anger and your hatred means more people read and say "Poor you..."

Second, WATCH YOUR MOUTH!
You use your mouth to praise the Lord and now you use it to blame someone in rude words. Becareful, your words can kill you back. There are so many law problems just because words. Becareful to choose which words are good to come out from your mouth or you may feel so regret.

Third, FACEBOOK ISN'T YOUR DIARY!
Facebook is not your diary. So please stop being a drama queen. You may wish that you can get more sympathy from other people, but people may say "Do I look like I care???" when they read your status or give you a comment, but my question is "Did they always give you a wise comment?" Hell no. Go find a self-help-book at book store or go to talk directly with someone who can give you the best advice. Remember, facebook is not a diary. If you wanna share all the detail things in your life, just go, buy and write on your real diary.

Fourth, GROW UP!
People can see how childish you are from your status on Facebook.

So people, don't be mad if you read this post.
It just a little observation about what life brings.
If you're mad, it means that this post is aaaaaaaaaaaabsolutely true *giggling*
So, please be a nice user. Have a good day!

Coffee Story

Coffee shop is the best place on earth!

There's a quote that we can find a friend in a cup of coffee. Well, i agree with that. Even you go alone there, your coffee is your own friend to accompany you and make you feel relax.

But hey, did you know that we can see people's characteristics from a coffee that they've ordered?

Well, i'm gonna tell you my simply research about coffee and people's characteristics.

Espresso or black coffee.
People who love espresso or black coffee are people who have strong and straight characteristic and responsible. They are have a brave heart, perfectionist and loyal. They also a lil bit stubborn. But don't worry, they usually care and love to protect their lover.

Cappucinno.
People who love cappucinno are people who love to try something new, creative and love to make a new experiment for their life. Just like the real cappucinno, light and deeply enjoyable.

Frappucinno.
People who love frappucinno are people who love adventure, optimist and really know about what they want in life. They are a bit ambitious for their life but still know how to have fun. Bold is their middle name.

So which one is your favorite coffee? Tell me! *smiling*

Being different is cool

Do we wrong just because we're different?

Why do people love for being similar to others?

Why should be afraid for being different?

Being different is cool.

Being different is unique.

Similarity is monoton. And monoton is boring.

Can you people live with just one colour?

Imagine if rainbow only had one colour.

Does it look beautiful?

- Felsdar -

Fragile Heart

Heart can be so strong

But it can be so weak at the other time

Heart is fragile.

So handle it with care.

Or you may broke it.


- Felsdar -

A Short Conversation Between Me And Him : How To Make Our Job Easier?

A short phone conversation between me and my hubby to be which change my point of view about work life :

Me : "Honey, I'm so tired today! Did u know that it feels like hard to breath? I have to do this and do that. It seems like my job is successfuly stole my time. Do you think that I should seek another job which can give me more oxygen to breath?

Him : "Sweetheart, I know that ... You're not alone here. I feel it too. But complaining about job isn't solve your problem. Wanna know how to enjoy your job?"

Me : "Yeaaa! Tell me!"

Him : "Just try to dedicate your job to someone who you love then you can do your best. Did you know what makes my job become easier for me?"

Me : "No. What makes your job become easier for you,hon?"

Him : "You! I can do my best just because i dedicate all of my jobs just for you, for our next little happy family"

Me : ( crying )


- felsdar -

World Contains Of Broken Promises

World contains of broken promises.
You did. I did. We did. They did.

Sad but true, we were not born to make all of people be happy. Sometime we hurt others with our broken promises. And feel deeply sorry about that. And wish that we could repair it again ( and again ).

But there's always be a reason of why those broken promises have been exist.

Don't blame the condition.
Don't blame others.

I started to believe that there's always be a good side even in a bad side.
And i started not to count on human. But i started to count on God and hold on God's promises.

We can make some broken promises.
Cause we're just fleshs. We are weak. But God never has broken promises.

- felsdar -

Marry Me (2)

This is my favorite song ever!

"MARRY ME - BY : TRAIN"


Forever can never be long enough for me
To feel like I've had long enough with you
Forget the world now we won't let them see
But there's one thing left to do

Now that the weight has lifted
Love has surely shifted my way

Marry Me
Today and every day

Marry Me
If I ever get the nerve to say "Hello" in this cafe
Say you will
Mm-hmm
Say you will
Mm-hmm

Together can never be close enough for me
Feel like I am close enough to you
You wear white and I'll wear out the words I love you
And you're beautiful
Now that the wait is over
And love and has finally shown her my way
Marry me
Today and every day
Marry me
If I ever get the nerve to say "Hello" in this cafe
Say you will
Mm-hmm
Say you will
Mm-hmm

Promise me
You'll always be
Happy by my side
I promise to
Sing to you
When all the music dies

And marry me
Today and everyday
Marry me
If I ever get the nerve to say "Hello" in this cafe
Say you will
Mm-hmm
Say you will
Marry me
Mm-hmm

Marry Me (1)

Everyone has the best moment of life. So do I.

The best thing in my life is when he asked me to marry him after this five years relationship. Geez! I felt like i've just won the lottery or more than that. I didnt know what to say but trust me when someone who you love the most was brought you to the top of the hill where you can see all the city lights, touched you hand gently and asked you at your birthday to marry him then put a beautiful ring to your finger, you can feel like you're the luckiest girl on earth ever! And that was happened at my birthday.

Well. Who says that we have no war in our relationship? We did. Five years isn't a short time for a relationship. We realize, it's very humanly to make a mistake in life and it can hurt each other easily but we have a commitment to solve it wisely. And trust me, nothing's can compare to a break up kiss ( i mean having a kiss after you and your lover get a war and finally make it up ). LOL.

He's not just a hubby to be for me. Not just a fiance for me. But he can be my daddy, my brother, my bestfriend, my mood booster, my team work and my debating partner too ( Geez i remember when we debate about law and politic till morning! ). LOL. See? He always knows how to complete me.

That's why when he said "Will you marry me?" then i said "Yes, i do!"

- felsdar -

20-Songs-To-Kill

1. Already Over It - Orson.
2. Lesson Learned - Alicia Keys ft. John Mayer.
3. Beautiful Disaster ( Piano version ) - Kelly Clarkson.
4. If U Leave - Musiq Soulchild ft. Mary J.Blige.
5. I'll Be Fine - Stevie Hoang.
6. Mad - NeYo.
7. Leave ( Get Out! ) - Jojo.
8. Goodbye - Avril Lavigne.
9. Not A Very Good Liar - David Archuleta.
10. Break Your Heart - Taio Cruz.
11. The Harold Song - Ke$ha.
12. Never Again - Justin Timberlake.
13. Forget You - The Pretty Reckless.
14. Dear lie - TLC.
15. So Sick - NeYo.
16. Nothing - The Script.
17. Over It - Katherine Mc. Phee.
18. Tattoo - Jordin Sparks.
19. Whataya Want From Me - Adam Lambert.
20. Fading - Rihanna.

Heal The World

Heal the world starts from heal our mind.

Negative mind creates the mental illness.
The mental illness is like germ, it can attack us till the smallest cell of our body.

We can't watch something objectively again.
We can hate others easily.
We can't feel love and peace again.

So, when we have this mental illness, can we heal the world?

BIG NO!

Heal our selves first then we can heal the world.


-Felsdar-