How To Be More Romantic?

Me : Why don't you be romantic everytime?

Him : What? Give you flowers? Say some sweet words? Honey, I've been preparing for something bigger than those things. I've been preparing for the real things, more than just those only words and flowers. I've been preparing a new world for us, for our little next family. Love isn't only about words and flowers, it's more than those. Your task is just be patient. *smiling*

Me : *speechless* *hug him*


-felsdar-

Would You?

If someday i said "I'm tired",
Would you be the first to hug me
and support me to stand again?


-Felsdar-

Your Facebook = Your Diary?

Have you ever read your friend's status on Facebook which show that he / she was mad of something? Or have you ever made a status on your Facebook which blame someone easily?

Well, today we know that some social networks esp. Facebook has been changed the function easily from social media into DIARY.

You can make or you can read other's life from their status.

Most of them put their Facebook as their diary. They write all the things there, start from happy stories till the poor stories of them.

I've found some status on Facebook which is show the owner's anger.
The owner of this Facebook wrote some rude words and blame another people easily on her / his facebook. You know what, here are my thoughts in my mind when the first time I saw those rude status on facebook :

First, POOR YOU!
Remember, saying some rude words (esp.on facebook) doesn't make you cool enough. Other people who saw that status may say (in their heart) "Oh geez, this person is too labile too handle a problem" or "Geez,did this person ever learn about ethics in a primary school?"
So, more status on your Facebook to show your anger and your hatred means more people read and say "Poor you..."

Second, WATCH YOUR MOUTH!
You use your mouth to praise the Lord and now you use it to blame someone in rude words. Becareful, your words can kill you back. There are so many law problems just because words. Becareful to choose which words are good to come out from your mouth or you may feel so regret.

Third, FACEBOOK ISN'T YOUR DIARY!
Facebook is not your diary. So please stop being a drama queen. You may wish that you can get more sympathy from other people, but people may say "Do I look like I care???" when they read your status or give you a comment, but my question is "Did they always give you a wise comment?" Hell no. Go find a self-help-book at book store or go to talk directly with someone who can give you the best advice. Remember, facebook is not a diary. If you wanna share all the detail things in your life, just go, buy and write on your real diary.

Fourth, GROW UP!
People can see how childish you are from your status on Facebook.

So people, don't be mad if you read this post.
It just a little observation about what life brings.
If you're mad, it means that this post is aaaaaaaaaaaabsolutely true *giggling*
So, please be a nice user. Have a good day!

Coffee Story

Coffee shop is the best place on earth!

There's a quote that we can find a friend in a cup of coffee. Well, i agree with that. Even you go alone there, your coffee is your own friend to accompany you and make you feel relax.

But hey, did you know that we can see people's characteristics from a coffee that they've ordered?

Well, i'm gonna tell you my simply research about coffee and people's characteristics.

Espresso or black coffee.
People who love espresso or black coffee are people who have strong and straight characteristic and responsible. They are have a brave heart, perfectionist and loyal. They also a lil bit stubborn. But don't worry, they usually care and love to protect their lover.

Cappucinno.
People who love cappucinno are people who love to try something new, creative and love to make a new experiment for their life. Just like the real cappucinno, light and deeply enjoyable.

Frappucinno.
People who love frappucinno are people who love adventure, optimist and really know about what they want in life. They are a bit ambitious for their life but still know how to have fun. Bold is their middle name.

So which one is your favorite coffee? Tell me! *smiling*

Being different is cool

Do we wrong just because we're different?

Why do people love for being similar to others?

Why should be afraid for being different?

Being different is cool.

Being different is unique.

Similarity is monoton. And monoton is boring.

Can you people live with just one colour?

Imagine if rainbow only had one colour.

Does it look beautiful?

- Felsdar -

Fragile Heart

Heart can be so strong

But it can be so weak at the other time

Heart is fragile.

So handle it with care.

Or you may broke it.


- Felsdar -

A Short Conversation Between Me And Him : How To Make Our Job Easier?

A short phone conversation between me and my hubby to be which change my point of view about work life :

Me : "Honey, I'm so tired today! Did u know that it feels like hard to breath? I have to do this and do that. It seems like my job is successfuly stole my time. Do you think that I should seek another job which can give me more oxygen to breath?

Him : "Sweetheart, I know that ... You're not alone here. I feel it too. But complaining about job isn't solve your problem. Wanna know how to enjoy your job?"

Me : "Yeaaa! Tell me!"

Him : "Just try to dedicate your job to someone who you love then you can do your best. Did you know what makes my job become easier for me?"

Me : "No. What makes your job become easier for you,hon?"

Him : "You! I can do my best just because i dedicate all of my jobs just for you, for our next little happy family"

Me : ( crying )


- felsdar -

World Contains Of Broken Promises

World contains of broken promises.
You did. I did. We did. They did.

Sad but true, we were not born to make all of people be happy. Sometime we hurt others with our broken promises. And feel deeply sorry about that. And wish that we could repair it again ( and again ).

But there's always be a reason of why those broken promises have been exist.

Don't blame the condition.
Don't blame others.

I started to believe that there's always be a good side even in a bad side.
And i started not to count on human. But i started to count on God and hold on God's promises.

We can make some broken promises.
Cause we're just fleshs. We are weak. But God never has broken promises.

- felsdar -

Marry Me (2)

This is my favorite song ever!

"MARRY ME - BY : TRAIN"


Forever can never be long enough for me
To feel like I've had long enough with you
Forget the world now we won't let them see
But there's one thing left to do

Now that the weight has lifted
Love has surely shifted my way

Marry Me
Today and every day

Marry Me
If I ever get the nerve to say "Hello" in this cafe
Say you will
Mm-hmm
Say you will
Mm-hmm

Together can never be close enough for me
Feel like I am close enough to you
You wear white and I'll wear out the words I love you
And you're beautiful
Now that the wait is over
And love and has finally shown her my way
Marry me
Today and every day
Marry me
If I ever get the nerve to say "Hello" in this cafe
Say you will
Mm-hmm
Say you will
Mm-hmm

Promise me
You'll always be
Happy by my side
I promise to
Sing to you
When all the music dies

And marry me
Today and everyday
Marry me
If I ever get the nerve to say "Hello" in this cafe
Say you will
Mm-hmm
Say you will
Marry me
Mm-hmm

Marry Me (1)

Everyone has the best moment of life. So do I.

The best thing in my life is when he asked me to marry him after this five years relationship. Geez! I felt like i've just won the lottery or more than that. I didnt know what to say but trust me when someone who you love the most was brought you to the top of the hill where you can see all the city lights, touched you hand gently and asked you at your birthday to marry him then put a beautiful ring to your finger, you can feel like you're the luckiest girl on earth ever! And that was happened at my birthday.

Well. Who says that we have no war in our relationship? We did. Five years isn't a short time for a relationship. We realize, it's very humanly to make a mistake in life and it can hurt each other easily but we have a commitment to solve it wisely. And trust me, nothing's can compare to a break up kiss ( i mean having a kiss after you and your lover get a war and finally make it up ). LOL.

He's not just a hubby to be for me. Not just a fiance for me. But he can be my daddy, my brother, my bestfriend, my mood booster, my team work and my debating partner too ( Geez i remember when we debate about law and politic till morning! ). LOL. See? He always knows how to complete me.

That's why when he said "Will you marry me?" then i said "Yes, i do!"

- felsdar -

20-Songs-To-Kill

1. Already Over It - Orson.
2. Lesson Learned - Alicia Keys ft. John Mayer.
3. Beautiful Disaster ( Piano version ) - Kelly Clarkson.
4. If U Leave - Musiq Soulchild ft. Mary J.Blige.
5. I'll Be Fine - Stevie Hoang.
6. Mad - NeYo.
7. Leave ( Get Out! ) - Jojo.
8. Goodbye - Avril Lavigne.
9. Not A Very Good Liar - David Archuleta.
10. Break Your Heart - Taio Cruz.
11. The Harold Song - Ke$ha.
12. Never Again - Justin Timberlake.
13. Forget You - The Pretty Reckless.
14. Dear lie - TLC.
15. So Sick - NeYo.
16. Nothing - The Script.
17. Over It - Katherine Mc. Phee.
18. Tattoo - Jordin Sparks.
19. Whataya Want From Me - Adam Lambert.
20. Fading - Rihanna.

Heal The World

Heal the world starts from heal our mind.

Negative mind creates the mental illness.
The mental illness is like germ, it can attack us till the smallest cell of our body.

We can't watch something objectively again.
We can hate others easily.
We can't feel love and peace again.

So, when we have this mental illness, can we heal the world?

BIG NO!

Heal our selves first then we can heal the world.


-Felsdar-